Among the things that rile me is the need to explain the rationale or the lack of it behind my decisions. For instance, why I gave up a B-School seat and got married instead or Why I don't want to have children (right now, anyway) or why I of all people would choose not to live away from the boy, when he had to go off to work.
But, I notice that the points of highest bristle, of super-sensitivity are those that I feel the most about. These are the things that I am aware of - I know that if I had made a different choice, I'd be in a very different place right now.
Yes, there's not too much of a point I'm trying to make here.
This of course, just stems out of a dig that a dear friend took at one of the aforementioned decisions earlier today.
But, I notice that the points of highest bristle, of super-sensitivity are those that I feel the most about. These are the things that I am aware of - I know that if I had made a different choice, I'd be in a very different place right now.
Yes, there's not too much of a point I'm trying to make here.
This of course, just stems out of a dig that a dear friend took at one of the aforementioned decisions earlier today.
1 comment:
You are here because we were destined to meet! But seriously, many times we end up choosing a path that we have cursed or mocked in the past, but that's life. The unexpected can bring about so many joys and help us learn things we might have never known about ourselves otherwise. Each moment we live is tied to the next, and looking back, it usually produces a really beautifully woven web. Don't second guess yourself, sista! You're on the right track...
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