I ended up half-watching Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna - thats where I leave the movie on while I do random chores around the house returning only to fast forward the songs.

Yes, yes it has all the flaws of a bollywood film. But here's the (only) thing that I liked about the film: the protagonist is flawed.
And not just in the sense of "How can someone think up such an idiot character?" either.
The protagonist especially is an everyday jerk - with a temper and jealousy to boot.

(Abrupt end here. Thats all I really wanted to say)